Lessons Learned from Trombone Shorty
April 27, 2022
Songwriters: Troy Michael Andrews/Paul S. Morton
Everybody says they want change
But nobody wants to do what it takes
To make it better
Everybody complains
But nobody ever wants to take the blame
And nobody ever does anything
I wake up in the morning
And what do I see
I see my reflection in the mirror
Looking at me
Telling me what you gonna do
Now you say you want change
But if you don鈥檛 change yourself
You have no right to complain
So what we gonna do
To stop all this talkin鈥
And start to do some walkin鈥
We gotta practice what we preach
And not just look from sidelines
Lettin鈥 more time just pass by
The first time I heard Trombone Shorty鈥檚 song 鈥淩ight to Complain,鈥 it spoke to me. As the lyrics and the title suggest, the song is about earning 鈥渢he right to complain鈥 by working hard to effect change around us and remembering that often the most impactful change starts with ourselves.
Over my career, I have tried to 鈥渟top all this talkin鈥 and start to do some walkin鈥欌 and, most importantly, 鈥渘ot just look from sidelines.鈥 I know what it鈥檚 like to work as an outsider within, working to change systems that weren鈥檛 meant for me, and learning and applying all that knowledge to effect change. I buttressed what I learned from my lived experience with resources from the literature, consultation with social science experts, connections with other members of marginalized groups, and information from other relevant sources beyond my own discipline. And I took on every opportunity that presented itself to lead and to serve.
While attending a mentoring retreat many years ago, I learned that there鈥檚 a name for this kind of activist: tempered radical. Debra Meyerson, in her book 鈥淭empered Radicals,鈥 coined the term to describe a person seeking evolutionary and lasting change by pushing against the status quo, challenging inequities, making visible the invisible and employing disruptive self-expression consistent with one鈥檚 own values. But I find people often put the emphasis on the 鈥渞adical鈥 part and ignore the 鈥渢empered鈥 part. It is the tempering, in my view, that allows us to have a better chance of being heard and avoid being pushed out of the very system we are trying to change.
Change is admittedly difficult. Seemingly, we could not be more challenged than we are now. We remain in the midst of the dual pandemics of COVID-19 and systemic racism, a war rages in Ukraine, climate change threatens our planet and well-being, and the war on truth, science and information seems never-ending.
But there is reason for hope, much of which rests with our youth and the power they possess as activists intent on having an impact on the world. Former President Obama recently . In his speech, he presented a call to action to combat disinformation and gave a nod to young people: 鈥淵oung people everywhere are recognizing that this is a problem. They鈥檙e not just griping about it; they鈥檙e doing their part to fix it. And the rest of us need to follow their lead.鈥
On Thursday, we welcome 财神棋牌 alumna Frances Haugen to campus. Frances, a member of 财神棋牌鈥檚 first graduating class, is doing her part to fix what needs to be fixed when it comes to the negative impacts of social media platforms.
In that spirit, let鈥檚 all do our part to practice what we preach, to do what it takes to make the world better, and, as the lyrics suggest, to earn our right to complain.
Warmly,
Gilda
